From Caregiver to Clinic Coordinator: Karen Toennis' Journey Alongside ALS

In 2007, Karen Toennis received an unexpected phone call. On the other end of the line was Dr. Stanley Appel, the neurologist who cared for Karen's husband, Mike, during his 13-year battle with ALS. They had not spoken since Mike's passing the year before, but Dr. Appel had a question for Karen.

"At first I'm asking myself, why is he calling me?" Karen says with a laugh. "But then he said he wanted me to run his ALS clinic at Houston Methodist Hospital, where Mike received his care."

The job offer came as a surprise, and initially, Karen hesitated.

"I told Dr. Appel I had no idea how to run a clinic. And he said, 'I can teach you how to run a clinic, but I cannot give you the passion that you have for ALS.'"

After giving it some thought, Karen took the position.

It would be a life-changing decision. Eleven years later, Karen is working her dream job as ALS coordinator for Dr. Appel's clinic at Houston Methodist Hospital. The clinic, which has a long partnership with MDA, holds a special place in Karen's heart, as it played an instrumental role in providing Mike with quality care during his journey with ALS.

A Toennis family photo

A personal connection to ALS

Karen and Mike's lives changed in 1992 when Mike, at the age of 36, started to experience symptoms of what would be diagnosed a year later as ALS. Both Karen and Mike served in the armed forces — Karen as an Army nurse and Mike as a helicopter pilot. It was this military connection that ultimately led them to Houston Methodist.

Karen and Mike during their time in the U.S. Army

"One of our military friends said that you should call the MDA, because they help with ALS," Karen says. "We called the San Antonio office, where my husband was stationed at the time, and immediately got affiliated with the MDA. We had a workup done by Dr. Appel in June 1993 and he confirmed Mike's diagnosis of ALS."

It was a devastating diagnosis for the Toennises. Karen, who had only recently left the military to become a neonatal and pediatric ICU nurse, decided to leave her job and care for her husband. In addition, they decided to start a family, and in 1994 Karen gave birth to their son, Joseph.

The support of MDA

As Mike's condition deteriorated over the next several years, Karen assumed the dual full-time roles of caregiver and mother. During this time, the MDA clinic at Houston Methodist proved to be a welcome resource, with one MDA employee in particular providing crucial support to the family.

"Our first ALS clinic visit was in 1993," Karen says. "Anne Swisher was the MDA liaison at Houston Methodist at the time. She wore many hats — social worker, clinic coordinator, and liaison. She was fantastic. She was someone we could call whenever we had concerns and questions."

Karen and Mike at Houston Methodist

Although Mike ultimately passed away from ALS in 2006, Karen is thankful that he was able to survive with the condition for 13 years. She gives a lot of the credit to the care he received from Dr. Appel and the ALS clinic.

"MDA was an integral part of the support we needed all throughout my husband's illness," Karen says. "They helped and supported Dr. Appel's clinic and the patients there."

To show their gratitude, the Toennises often participated in fundraising during the annual MDA Labor Day telethon.

"We were always available to help with fundraising — even my son," Karen says. "We would greet the donors who presented checks and say thank you and let them know what their donation meant to us."

ALS clinic coordinator

With the memories of the support her family received from the ALS clinic still fresh in her mind, Karen embarked on her new role as ALS clinic coordinator at Houston Methodist in August 2007. After 11 years there, she still finds it the perfect fit.

"I love doing what I do," Karen says. "I hope that every day I can make somebody's life a little easier."

Karen in her office

In her day-to-day, Karen has many responsibilities.

"My role is to be an educator, liaison, counselor, and support person for any of the patients who get diagnosed with ALS," Karen says. She is also active on the research side. "I participate in the research Dr. Appel is doing, such as screening patients and managing the research database."

One of her favorite aspects of the role is managing the monthly ALS clinic days, where patients from all over Texas and the United States come to receive multidisciplinary care from Dr. Appel and other specialists. It's an opportunity for ALS families to come together and check in on one another.

"We like to make it more of a social event, so patients can mingle in the waiting room," Karen says. "Many are from small towns that don't have a support group, and this is their support group."

When talking with patients, Karen frequently draws on her personal experience as an ALS family member and caregiver.

"Sometimes, if needed, I share my own personal experience, encouraging patients who are considering a feeding tube, wheelchair, or using a walker," Karen says. She's found that some ALS patients struggle to open up at first, but upon talking to her, they realize they can trust her with their situation.

"They are so devastated by this diagnosis," Karen says. "You can see it in their eyes. And I can say, 'Listen, I've been there. You can do this. And I'm going to help you get through it.' I love making the connection."

A bright future

In the 25 years since her husband's diagnosis, Karen has seen a lot of progress on the ALS front. She is optimistic about where research is headed but still remembers what it was like for Mike to receive his life-changing news.

MDA Telethon

To someone newly diagnosed with ALS, she has this to say:

"First and foremost, seek an ALS center. It makes a big difference for our patients, and you will receive quality, multidisciplinary care to help manage this disease. The second thing to remember is that you may look and see there is no cure, but we can treat this disease. We may not be able to cure it yet, but we can treat it. We can manage the symptoms and we have the tools and multidisciplinary centers to truly make 'living with ALS' a reality.

"There's a lot of great research going on right now that's getting us excited," she says. "It may not be one-pill-cures-all, but several different therapies. So many scientists are researching different avenues, that collectively these discoveries could add up to make ALS a more treatable and manageable disease."

About the author

Re-published with permission from the MDA's Strongly blog.

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Date: 5/22/2018 12:00:00 AM


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